Monday, May 06, 2013

Book review




Assalamualaikum ladies and gentlemen.. ^.^

I just don't know what to write, but hanging around (surfing the internet aimlessly) is not a good idea anyway..hukhuk.. (>.<) so i end up stuck here, and make my mind think of something. But one thing i am sure of is....i blame myself because i did something which i shouldn't do.. watching a friend's wedding photo! That is so forbidden! haha~

Before this, I've read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray in Malay language edition. I just know, it is so unbelievable for me to buy and read that kind of book, i can't believe it myself (pheww)... And i skipped many parts..again, i am not enthusiastic the least in reading motivational books, no different from reading a novel but Alhamdulillah.. from my 'scanning' , i learnt that men are so different from women (a fact that everybody has known.. huhhu).

My review of this book..If you are not so keen in this matter or you just don't bother to change yourself or understand others, just forget about the book, it would be very boring (motivational books are always boring btw!!). If you are determined in acquiring communication skills between men(martian)  and women (venusian), first you have to understand the differences that they have. Of course, you can learn some of the differences from this book. BUT if you have the intention of MANIPULATING the opposite gender, boil this book in a broth and drink it! Or tadabbur each word contained in it. You'll definitely succeed...INSHAALLAH ;)

To conclude, it is not a waste of time to read it, but on the other hand.......... read it yourself, only then you'll know. In the meantime, i'm searching for a new book.

one thing for sure, I have to make my future husband read this :p





Sunday, April 14, 2013

Luahan hati

Kini genap 1 bulan 1 hari ana dan dia berjauhan..


Air mata? Kadang-kadang tidak tertahan..


And I have done so many things, name them- working, reading, shopping, excessive sleeping just to wash away the feeling.. but still...
Ana sungguh-sungguh merindukan dia.. (T_T)

Setiap kali bukak pc ofis kat workstation, akan muncullah
gambar kapal Orkim Reliance. Alhamdulillah,terubat sikit
rindu.


Buku miliknya yang sering
ditatap dan dibaca berulang-ulang kali.
hehe (dapat tmbah ilmu) :p



but yg terpaling best,went to Tanjung Harapan
untuk menatap laut ciptaan ALLAH yg
Maha Hebat. Subhanallah ;)
(lagi terubat rindu ni,tenang..)

Friday, March 22, 2013

Sanah Helwah Ibu ^.^


For the one who had lovingly carried me in her womb for 9 months..
For the one who had gambled her life to let me see the world for almost 22 years ago..
For the one who had allowed me to enjoy her breast milk and grow strong...
For the one who had chosen to give me love and raised me up..
For the one who had patiently tolerated my tantrum and emotional burst..
For the one who has always been there for me to turn to...
For the one who has taught me to be a good muslimah..
For the one who has always made me understood the responsibility of an 'abd of God..
For the one who has always painted my life in wonderful colours..
For the one who have done everything for me that not even a soul can compare..
For the one whom I can't ever forget to love, and to cherish in my doa...
I love you, dear IBU..
No presents on your birthday, but a warm memory of me and you..
And tears that spell a never ending love..
And my humble prayer that you'll have a grand life in the hereafter..
With Love, from Farahana







Saturday, March 16, 2013

Khadijah r.a idolaku

Suami dan isteri seharusnya terdorong ke arah menuju
satu matlamat iaitu syurga ALLAH azza wajalla.
(sekadar gambar hiasan)
:)

Assalamualaikum semua.. (^____^)
Today I am in the melancholic mood again after such severe diarrhea. It was due to the sambal ayam (just sambal,tapi ayam tadak) I ate yesterday at the stall near Econsave , I am sure..

Recently Ana banyak baca buku-buku tentang alam perkahwinan. Bukan apa,sebelum nak mendirikan baitul muslim, Ana perlu melengkapkan diri dengan segala macam ilmu. Other than that pengurusan, kewangan dan kematangan juga penting. Sejak Ana dah tahu tentang sirah hidup Khadijah, Ana selalu berangan-angan (bukan angan mat jenin) nak jadi seperti Khadijah kepada Rasulullah s.a.w. Starting from there I was so determined (and still am) to change drastically. To change to be a better person. Ana nak sangat jadi isteri solehah yang sentiasa membahagiakan suami suatu hari nanti..Inshaallah.

Teringin sangat diri ini menjadi seperti Khadijah kepada Rasulullah, sehinggakan pemergiannya meninggalkan nama, kehilangannya diiringi air mata, kesunyian hidup tanpanya membuahkan rindu, dan meskipun dengan ketiadaannya, namanya sentiasa saja meniti dibibir Rasulullah s.a.w, diungguli dan bagaimana pula perasaan dalam hati baginda? Pastinya tersangat merindui isteri tercinta..

Ya, Ana ingin menjadi seperti dia. I want my presence in his life become a priceless gift. Ana begitu ingin menjadi bidadari kepada dia, menjadi ibu kepada anak-anaknya, menjadi tempat untuk dia bermanja, menjadi temannya mengejar cinta dan redha Yang Maha Esa, beriringan dengannya menyusuri jalan mencari syurgaNya...

Ana ingin menjadi seperti Khadijah kepada Rasulullah s.a.w


Pemberian daripada si dia untuk diri ini yang tidak sempurna.
Inshaallah akan dimanfaatkan ilmu yang terkandung di dalamnya.
:)

Friday, February 08, 2013

Sinar Baharu 2013



Assalamualaikum..sudah lama rasanya tak berkongsi rasa di blog sendiri.Ana sihat Alhamdulillah..korang sihat?perkongsian ana bermula pada hari ini InshaALLAH akan menjadi perkongsian yang bermanfaat untuk semua ye.Mudah-mudahan ALLAH permudahkan. Kalau ada yang meng-ushar2 post2 ana yg lepas tu adalah time ana kurang level of kematangan lagi.hehe..biasalah manusia.. 

Sebenarnya,kita merupakan watak utama dalam drama yang terbesar dalam diri kita.. drama kehidupan..walaupun kehidupan kita tidak seperti yang digambarkan dalam drama orang lain, kita juga berhak memiliki drama kita sendiri..jangan takut akan perpisahan kerana ALLAH lebih mengetahui apa yang terkandung dalam Luh MahfuzNya..berdoalah untuk kehidupan orang lain agar Allah sentiasa bersama kita :)



Ingat ya,sedih tu perkara biasa jika kita ditimpa sebarang musibah,tapi rasa sedih itu mestilah kena pada had dan tempatnya,kalau tak..takut meroyan sampai nak terjun bangunan pulak kan..ish2,Na'uzubillahhimindzalik. semoga kita semua dijauhkan daripada perkara2 sebegitu. 


Smile with iman.. <3 ;)